What We Reject Without Realizing
For years I watched the world become obsessed with manifestation. Everywhere you look, someone is teaching vision boards, affirmations, visualizations, scripting, and all the popular tools that promise to deliver your dream life.When I first discovered manifestation, I was excited.
I was ready to change everything.
I used every method people talked about and waited for the magic to begin. Some things came to me easily and without effort, which gave me hope. But other things that I deeply desired refused to manifest, no matter how aligned I tried to be.
I saw the same thing happening with so many others.
People would visualize for months and nothing changed.
Some tried affirmations and their circumstances actually got worse.
Eventually many gave up because it felt like nothing was working.
But manifestation does work.
The problem is that most of us are missing two major pieces, and nobody talks about the parts that matter most.
After years of studying, healing, learning, and observing my own patterns, I finally understood that two things block manifestation more than anything else:
1. We manifest from our belief system, which often requires inner child healing or trauma work.
2. We block abundance when we reject the things we receive, especially when they arrive in a form we did not expect.
Today I want to talk about the second piece because it is the one people rarely notice, yet it quietly suffocates your receiving channel.
Everything that comes to you, whether you love it or not, comes through your receiving channel.
If you resist it, judge it, complain about it, or dismiss it, you send a message to the universe that says:
"I am not open to receiving. Please stop."
Many people only want abundance to show up in the exact way they imagined.
Money only from their business.
Support only in the form they want.
Love only in the language that feels comfortable.
Gifts only in the style or price they prefer.
Everything else becomes annoying or “not helpful” or “not what I asked for.”
One day, while doing inner work, I suddenly understood something very simple: everything we receive must pass through our receiving channel. If we resist what comes to us, if we judge it because it is not what we wanted, the channel closes and abundance stops flowing.
That resistance closes the receiving channel!!!
This realization guided me to ask myself a powerful question:
Where in my life am I receiving abundance that I am not acknowledging or appreciating?
The answer surprised me.
It was my husband.
It was my mother.
It was the people who cared for me in ways I never recognized as abundance.
I did not accept things without judgment when they gave me advice or things I did not ask for.
And even though I tried not to be harsh, energetically I rejected so much of it.
I did not take their advice.
I rolled my eyes inside.
I felt annoyed.
I dismissed it.
Sometimes I even argued.
And because energy is everything, my body knew the truth long before my polite “thank you.”
I saw value only in what I wanted, not in what they offered from their heart.
That is when it hit me.
I had been blocking abundance for years because I believed abundance meant getting what I wanted, the way I wanted it, at the moment I wanted it.
But abundance often arrives in simpler, gentler forms first.
Through parents, partners, friends, neighbors, and community.
Through advice, care, food, small gestures, support, and kindness.
Those are abundance channels too.
I had been refusing abundance that was trying to come to me through the people closest to me simply because it did not arrive in the way I expected.
And then something deeper clicked in my heart.
Abundance is not only money or gifts or opportunities.
It is not about perfect packaging.
Abundance is the flow of giving and receiving.
Abundance is every single thing that life gives us.
Even the experiences that challenge us, confuse us, or push us out of our comfort zone.
Even the moments that sting.
When we accept an experience without judgment, it becomes a lesson.
And lessons are abundance because they expand us.
They grow us.
They bring clarity, resilience, and understanding.
Every experience life brings us is part of the abundance we asked for, even when it feels uncomfortable.
When this truth landed in my body, I felt a wave of sadness.
I realized how many moments of care, support, or guidance I had dismissed without seeing their value. But I did not judge myself.
I allowed the sadness to be there because this is what humans do.
And then something softer came in: gratitude.
I felt grateful that I was guided to see this now, while I can still shift and grow.
It made me think of how often we reject abundance in simple daily moments.
When parents bring food we did not want.
When a partner buys something we dislike or helps in a way we would not choose.
When a friend supports us in the only way they know.
When someone offers suggestions, time, or care.
We forget the intention and focus only on the delivery.
We think, “They should know better,” instead of seeing the love behind the gesture.
We complain that something was not done the way we expected, instead of recognizing how blessed we are to have any help at all.
Abundance flows through many channels, and when we reject those channels, we limit what can reach us.
You do not need to follow the advice.
You do not need to eat the food.
You do not need to keep the gift.
But you can receive the gesture.
Feel the intention behind it.
Appreciate the energy offered.
Give the food to someone in need.
Donate the gift.
Smile and say thank you.
Feel the love behind the action instead of evaluating the action itself.
Just receive it with an open heart.
This keeps your receiving channel open and clear.
If you want to manifest more, start by recognizing everything you already receive, especially what comes unexpectedly.
Gratitude opens portals.
Rejection closes them.
If you feel inspired, take a piece of paper and write down the question I asked myself:
Where in my life am I receiving abundance that I am not acknowledging or seeing?
Sit with it.
Let the answers rise gently.
You may discover something powerful about how the universe has been trying to give to you all along.
And if this resonates with you, let me know what you discover.
Follow along or join my community for the next part, where I will share the second major manifestation block.
Your next level is already waiting.
Let’s clear the path.
Your awareness is the first step to opening the flow.
More is already on its way once you can finally see what has been here all along.
Xoxo 
Urszula
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