Why Your Belief System Shapes Everything You Receive

 "I am worthy. I am wealthy. I am enough. I am powerful."
Some people have said these affirmations thousands of times.
So why are they still stuck in the same patterns?

Here is the part most manifestation teachings skip:
If you have certain blocks stored in your body and subconscious, affirmations will not work.
Vision boards will not work.
Manifesting will not work.
Not because you are doing anything wrong, but because your nervous system is still protecting you from what you are asking for.

Last week, in Part 1, we talked about the receiving channel and how we block abundance when we reject what arrives in unexpected forms.
(If you missed it, you can read Part 1 here: https://urszulakudla.com/blog/manifestationblock )

Today, we go deeper into the second major block: your belief system.
Because manifestation does not come from what you wish for.
It comes from what you believe is safe.

Most of your beliefs about love, money, safety, success, and worthiness were formed long before adulthood.
Your inner child learned how the world works based on what you experienced, what you absorbed, and what you needed to survive.
If the child inside you learned:
"I must earn love."
"It’s not safe to be seen."
"I am too much."
"I am not enough."
"I do not deserve more."
Then your adult self is manifesting from those beliefs.

You can say affirmations every day, but if your body still carries the belief that having more is unsafe, your nervous system will protect you from receiving it.

Manifestation happens through frequency, not words.
And your frequency is shaped by your beliefs.
Beliefs create your thoughts.
Thoughts create your emotions.
Emotions create your vibration.
And vibration is what shapes your reality.

Let me show you how this plays out:
If your belief is “I am not good enough,” even if you do not consciously think it, that belief will quietly shape your thoughts:
“Why would they choose me?”
“What if I fail?”
“I should not ask for too much.”

These thoughts create emotions like fear, shame, or anxiety.
Your body contracts.
Your energy closes.
And that is the vibration you send out.

So even if you repeat “I am confident” a hundred times, your subconscious belief will always override the affirmation.
This is why the real shift begins inside the belief itself.

Beliefs are the root.
They are the soil where all thoughts grow.
If the soil is toxic, the manifestation will be too.

This is why inner child healing, trauma processing, and nervous system work are not optional.
They are essential.
They clear the static.
They open the channel.
They allow you to receive what you are calling in.
Trauma is not just emotional.
It is energetic.
It creates beliefs that shape your entire frequency.
And until those beliefs are healed or neutralized, manifestation becomes inconsistent or blocked.

This work has been the center of my own transformation and the foundation of my books.
One of them, Healing Through Self-Care, has already been released. 
The second, The Mother Wound, will be launching at the beginning of December.
Both books explore the emotional patterns and childhood conditioning that quietly shape our adult lives and our ability to manifest what we desire, and they offer a clear blueprint for healing.

If you truly want to manifest your next-level life, you must begin neutralizing the beliefs created during moments of pain, fear, or misunderstanding.

This is the real work.
The work that changes everything.
The work that frees you.

And if you are ready to explore this deeper, to understand your inner child, your subconscious patterns, and your emotional blocks, I invite you into my community.
Where healing becomes a journey, you do not walk alone.

Your next level is already waiting.
Let’s clear the beliefs that have held you back.
Because once you shift the root, everything else starts to rise.

Xoxo
Urszula



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I've always felt there must be more to life than just going to school, working, cooking, and cleaning. 
Growing up, this was my mother’s routine, and for a long time, I thought it was mine to follow as well. I believed life was predetermined—shaped by social status and the expectations of those around us. Our family didn’t hold any special status, and I struggled with feelings of inadequacy. I thought of myself as ugly, too short, too heavy—frankly, I didn't like myself much at all.

But as I grew older, I began to feel a growing discomfort. I knew deep down that I wanted something different from life, something more. It took me years to understand that we are often shaped by others' expectations—parents, teachers, society—and that we can lose our true identity when we conform to someone else's vision of who we should be. I fell into that trap, and it led to poor decisions and a deep yearning for love, attention, and happiness. But no matter how hard I searched, I couldn’t find it outside of myself.

Growing up in Eastern Europe had a profound effect on my belief system. I didn’t feel like I had a voice, and when my family immigrated to Canada, that feeling intensified. I didn’t speak English, and the frustration of not being able to express myself made me feel even more lost and isolated. I struggled to belong, feeling like I didn’t fit in anywhere, and that emotional rollercoaster was slowly breaking me down. I had no idea who I was or what my purpose was on this planet.

To make matters worse, as I entered menopause, my health started to deteriorate. I felt sore, exhausted, uncomfortable, and trapped in a body that wasn’t listening to me. I was desperate for relief. Does any of this sound familiar?

For years, I struggled to reconnect with my true self, but I never gave up. I knew in my heart that the key to peace, happiness, and health was finding and following my own path. After countless books, webinars, and guidance from holistic teachers and coaches, I finally realized something powerful: I could rewrite my own story. I wasn’t stuck with the old programming I had absorbed—I could change the narrative.

Was it easy? Absolutely not. But the journey was worth every step. Rebuilding myself from the inside out, letting go of limiting beliefs, and embracing my body—just as it is—allowed me to finally live a life of joy and fulfillment. I’m still a work in progress, but that’s part of the beauty of life: it’s always evolving.
Through self-care, self-love, and total acceptance of who I am, I gained the confidence and courage to live a life of true freedom. Now, I am the author of my own fairy tale, fully owning my story and loving myself along the way. It’s the bravest thing I’ve ever done.

If you’re looking for inspiration or simply someone to share your journey with, let’s connect! I would love to hear your story, answer your questions, or just chat. Feel free to message me on social media or email me anytime—I’d love to hear from you!

xoxo

Urszula

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