As we approach the busiest time of the year, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of activities. 
With Christmas on the horizon, our days quickly fill up with shopping, cooking, attending holiday parties, and welcoming family visits. In today’s fast-paced world, where every minute seems accounted for, it’s all too easy to rush from one task to the next without taking a moment to breathe.
But it's precisely during these hectic periods that the simple act of pausing becomes more crucial than ever. Pausing, although it might seem like a small act, can profoundly impact our well-being and mindset. When we take a moment to stop, we give ourselves a chance to slow down, to really notice what’s happening within us, and to consciously decide how we want to respond to the events unfolding around us.

Pausing provides us with that much-needed space to breathe and be present. It allows us to connect with our emotions, helping us understand and manage them better, rather than letting them control our reactions. This brief stop can help recalibrate our thoughts and bring our focus back to what truly matters.
Moreover, reconnecting with the present through a pause can be incredibly grounding. It reminds us that we are here, now, and that this moment is as significant as any other. Although pausing may feel like inactivity, it is, in fact, a powerful choice. It's an active decision to not let life just happen to us, but to live it fully and intentionally.

So, as you navigate through the festive chaos, remember the power in the pause. It doesn’t need to be long—a few seconds of mindfulness, a brief moment to breathe deeply, or just time to feel the sensations around you can be incredibly refreshing. Each pause is a step back to yourself, a gentle reminder that amidst the holiday rush, you are important, and caring for your mental and emotional health is vital.
This season, let’s not just survive the holiday rush; let’s enjoy it. Let’s make time to celebrate our presence in the small moments, cherish our connections, and nurture our spirits. After all, taking care of yourself is perhaps the best gift you can give to yourself—and to others.


Xoxo
Urszula




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I've always felt there must be more to life than just going to school, working, cooking, and cleaning. 
Growing up, this was my mother’s routine, and for a long time, I thought it was mine to follow as well. I believed life was predetermined—shaped by social status and the expectations of those around us. Our family didn’t hold any special status, and I struggled with feelings of inadequacy. I thought of myself as ugly, too short, too heavy—frankly, I didn't like myself much at all.

But as I grew older, I began to feel a growing discomfort. I knew deep down that I wanted something different from life, something more. It took me years to understand that we are often shaped by others' expectations—parents, teachers, society—and that we can lose our true identity when we conform to someone else's vision of who we should be. I fell into that trap, and it led to poor decisions and a deep yearning for love, attention, and happiness. But no matter how hard I searched, I couldn’t find it outside of myself.

Growing up in Eastern Europe had a profound effect on my belief system. I didn’t feel like I had a voice, and when my family immigrated to Canada, that feeling intensified. I didn’t speak English, and the frustration of not being able to express myself made me feel even more lost and isolated. I struggled to belong, feeling like I didn’t fit in anywhere, and that emotional rollercoaster was slowly breaking me down. I had no idea who I was or what my purpose was on this planet.

To make matters worse, as I entered menopause, my health started to deteriorate. I felt sore, exhausted, uncomfortable, and trapped in a body that wasn’t listening to me. I was desperate for relief. Does any of this sound familiar?

For years, I struggled to reconnect with my true self, but I never gave up. I knew in my heart that the key to peace, happiness, and health was finding and following my own path. After countless books, webinars, and guidance from holistic teachers and coaches, I finally realized something powerful: I could rewrite my own story. I wasn’t stuck with the old programming I had absorbed—I could change the narrative.

Was it easy? Absolutely not. But the journey was worth every step. Rebuilding myself from the inside out, letting go of limiting beliefs, and embracing my body—just as it is—allowed me to finally live a life of joy and fulfillment. I’m still a work in progress, but that’s part of the beauty of life: it’s always evolving.
Through self-care, self-love, and total acceptance of who I am, I gained the confidence and courage to live a life of true freedom. Now, I am the author of my own fairy tale, fully owning my story and loving myself along the way. It’s the bravest thing I’ve ever done.

If you’re looking for inspiration or simply someone to share your journey with, let’s connect! I would love to hear your story, answer your questions, or just chat. Feel free to message me on social media or email me anytime—I’d love to hear from you!

xoxo

Urszula

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