How much joy are you allowing into your life?

For many years, I unknowingly kept joy at a distance—not because I didn’t want to feel it, but because my belief system wouldn’t allow me to fully embrace or express it. The idea of feeling joyful made me uncomfortable, almost as if I were breaking an unspoken rule. It wasn’t until much later in life that I realized I had a subconscious program—one I had unknowingly created—that was “protecting” me from joy.
As a child, I developed a belief that showing joy could get me into trouble. To avoid that imagined risk, I’d learned to sabotage joyful moments, not consciously, but as a safety procedure my mind had set on autopilot. Anytime joy emerged, this belief stepped in and quietly shut it down.
Throughout my self-development journey, I’d often reflected on my relationship with joy, but I couldn’t quite grasp what was holding me back. It wasn’t until I began embracing holistic self-care and using techniques like EFT tapping that I started to unravel these old, unneeded safety mechanisms. As I released these outdated programs, something beautiful happened: my life and health began to improve. I started enjoying life in ways I had only dreamed of.

Finding Joy as a Key to Healing
Joy became a cornerstone of my healing, and I realized just how essential it is to the wellness journey. My mission now is to help others ignite joy in their lives, too, because joy isn’t just a fleeting feeling—it’s transformative, life-giving, and deeply healing.
In my work, I’m developing programs to help people rediscover joy. There’s nothing more fulfilling than this, and one of these programs will be a joyful retreat in one of my favorite destinations. If this resonates with you, stay tuned and sign up for updates—I’d love to have you join me!

What is Joy?
 Joy is a powerful feeling, a deep, uplifting sense of happiness that radiates from within. Unlike fleeting pleasure, joy is enduring, often arising from meaningful connections, personal fulfillment, or a sense of harmony with oneself and the world. It’s that lightness that brings a spontaneous smile, fills us with energy, and leaves us feeling at peace. Joy can be sparked by small, everyday moments—a laugh with a friend, a beautiful sunrise, a moment of accomplishment—and grows from gratitude, presence, and alignment with our authentic selves. Unlike happiness that can waver with circumstances, joy is rooted in inner satisfaction and can remain steady even through life’s ups and downs.

Can Joy Actually Heal?
Absolutely—joy can be profoundly healing. It’s more than a moment of happiness; it’s a powerful force with the ability to impact both mind and body in meaningful ways. Here’s how joy can serve as a healing force:
  1. Reduces Stress: Experiencing joy triggers the release of endorphins and other “feel-good” hormones that counter stress and combat feelings of anxiety or depression. Reduced stress can enhance immune function, cardiovascular health, and resilience.
  2. Promotes Physical Health: Joyful experiences have been shown to reduce inflammation and lower blood pressure, creating a healthier environment in the body. Research has linked positive emotions with a lower risk of chronic illnesses, as joy supports a balanced nervous system and fosters healing.
  3. Improves Mental Well-Being: Joy helps shift our focus from negative thoughts, fostering an optimistic outlook. This resilience boosts our ability to cope with life’s challenges and aids healing from trauma, loss, or pain.
  4. Strengthens Relationships: Sharing joy with others deepens bonds and provides emotional support. Feeling connected can be profoundly healing, alleviating loneliness or isolation and fostering a sense of belonging.
  5. Encourages Personal Growth: Joy fuels creativity, curiosity, and motivation, inspiring us to explore new perspectives and seek meaningful experiences. This growth brings purpose and fulfillment, contributing to mental and emotional health
So, yes—joy can be a transformative, revitalizing force that nurtures us on multiple levels. Embracing joy isn’t just about feeling good in the moment; it’s about cultivating well-being that enhances our entire life.

Embrace Your Journey with Joy
 Rediscovering joy has brought so much light and healing into my life, and I want the same for each of you. It’s my hope to inspire and support others in finding their own joy-filled paths. 
If you’re ready to explore a life infused with joy and vitality, keep an eye out for my upcoming programs and joyful retreats designed to guide you on this journey.
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Let’s welcome joy back into our lives—one radiant, healing moment at a time.

"Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy." – Thich Nhat Hanh



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I've always felt there must be more to life than just going to school, working, cooking, and cleaning. 
Growing up, this was my mother’s routine, and for a long time, I thought it was mine to follow as well. I believed life was predetermined—shaped by social status and the expectations of those around us. Our family didn’t hold any special status, and I struggled with feelings of inadequacy. I thought of myself as ugly, too short, too heavy—frankly, I didn't like myself much at all.

But as I grew older, I began to feel a growing discomfort. I knew deep down that I wanted something different from life, something more. It took me years to understand that we are often shaped by others' expectations—parents, teachers, society—and that we can lose our true identity when we conform to someone else's vision of who we should be. I fell into that trap, and it led to poor decisions and a deep yearning for love, attention, and happiness. But no matter how hard I searched, I couldn’t find it outside of myself.

Growing up in Eastern Europe had a profound effect on my belief system. I didn’t feel like I had a voice, and when my family immigrated to Canada, that feeling intensified. I didn’t speak English, and the frustration of not being able to express myself made me feel even more lost and isolated. I struggled to belong, feeling like I didn’t fit in anywhere, and that emotional rollercoaster was slowly breaking me down. I had no idea who I was or what my purpose was on this planet.

To make matters worse, as I entered menopause, my health started to deteriorate. I felt sore, exhausted, uncomfortable, and trapped in a body that wasn’t listening to me. I was desperate for relief. Does any of this sound familiar?

For years, I struggled to reconnect with my true self, but I never gave up. I knew in my heart that the key to peace, happiness, and health was finding and following my own path. After countless books, webinars, and guidance from holistic teachers and coaches, I finally realized something powerful: I could rewrite my own story. I wasn’t stuck with the old programming I had absorbed—I could change the narrative.

Was it easy? Absolutely not. But the journey was worth every step. Rebuilding myself from the inside out, letting go of limiting beliefs, and embracing my body—just as it is—allowed me to finally live a life of joy and fulfillment. I’m still a work in progress, but that’s part of the beauty of life: it’s always evolving.
Through self-care, self-love, and total acceptance of who I am, I gained the confidence and courage to live a life of true freedom. Now, I am the author of my own fairy tale, fully owning my story and loving myself along the way. It’s the bravest thing I’ve ever done.

If you’re looking for inspiration or simply someone to share your journey with, let’s connect! I would love to hear your story, answer your questions, or just chat. Feel free to message me on social media or email me anytime—I’d love to hear from you!

xoxo

Urszula

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